日本象征爱情的花是什么 象征爱情和友谊的花是什么花

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Paul Hackshaw Follow

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achieve every man ' s wet dream of having an Asian wife

they look after their figures and shape and rarely get fat

lone liness is decreased or eradicated

they are usually not assertive or aggressive or trying to compete with men

they know how to act and stay feminine .

优点：实现了每个男人都有亚洲妻子的淫梦，

他们很少注意自己的身材和体型而发胖。

你的孤独感会减少或消除，
她们通常不武断，不咄咄逼人，也不试图与男性竞争，
她们知道如何表现和保持女人味。
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Language barrier and communication. unless she is a fluent English speaker there may be gaps in communication, or she may not know how to express herself. Things go unsaid or you miss the cues. Likewise if you dont speak Japanese well she is forced to use a second language all the time.
Japanese people are not overtly religious or devout. Nominally they are Buddhist and Shinto but there are few signs of abiding faith or actually believing in anything.
Younger ones esp millenials often have no idea how to cook,maybe just how to heat things up in the microwave.
A majority of Japanese marriages are sexless. Expect things to cool down in the bedroom.
Many wives control the family budget and give their husband an allowance. This is a foreign and alien concept to Western men.

缺点：语言障碍让你们难以沟通。除非她的英语说得很流利，否则在沟通上可能会有问题，或者她可能不知道如何表达自己的想法。问题没有被她说出口，或者你错过了线索。同样，如果你日语说得不好，她就不得不一直使用第二语言与你交流。
日本人不是很虔诚。名义上他们是佛教徒和神道教信徒，但他们很少有持久信仰的迹象，或者实际上相信任何事情。
年轻一代尤其是千禧一代通常不知道如何烹饪，可能只知道如何用微波炉加热食物。
大多数日本婚姻都是无性婚姻。期待卧室里的事情会让你失望。
许多日本妻子控制着家庭的预算，给丈夫零花钱。这对西方男人来说是一个陌生的概念。
Children will sleep in the marital bed from birth onwards up until elementary school. Leaving a baby alone in a cot in another room is not done here.
If you have kids there is 99% chance she will quit work and not return to full employment. Be prepared to support a non-working or part time working wife and kids.
Some women, I have read, are bat shit crazy. Mental illness is often not treated here, so you might get someone who is depressed, paranoid, OCD, physically or emotionally abusive.
many dont travel well and have a hard time if living overseas for long periods, and will want to return to Japan or live there long term.

孩子们从出生到上小学都睡在夫妻床上。把婴儿单独留在另一个房间的婴儿床上是不妥当的。
如果你有孩子，她有99%的可能会辞职，并且之后不会恢复完全的就业。准备好养活一个不工作或兼职工作的妻子和你们的孩子。
有些女人，我读到过，非常疯狂。这里通常不治疗精神疾病，所以你可能会遇到抑郁、偏执、强迫症、身体或情感上施虐的人。
许多日本人不喜欢旅行，如果在海外生活很长一段时间，他们会想要回到日本或长期生活在那里。
George Sawyer Follow
What are the pros and cons of having a Japanese wife or girlfriend? Unless one of you is truly fluent in the other’s language, you will have communication problems forever.
Broad cultural generalizations:
1.Many people think Japanese women are submissive. Outwardly, they may be. They are as soft as silk, but the silk is wrapped around steel. Yin can overcome yang, and likely they will rule you. They will do it so gradually, and so gracefully you likely won’t notice for a long time.
2.FYI, in Japanese marriages, usually the women control all the money, all the spending, they give the husband his allowance.
3.Often a Japanese woman will choose a foreign husband as a way to leave Japan. Often a foreign man will choose a Japanese wife as a way to stay in Japan.
4.If you are married and living outside Japan, when your first child is born, one day your wife will be holding your child and will realize that unless your family lives in Japan your child will never be able to speak to their Japanese grandparents in Japanese. This often triggers a family move back to Japan.

有一个日本妻子或女友的利与弊是什么? 除非你们中的一个真的能流利地使用另一个人的语言，否则你们将永远有沟通问题。
广泛的文化概括:
1.许多人认为日本女性很顺从。表面上看，可能是这样。她们像丝绸一样柔软，但丝绸包裹着钢铁。阴可以战胜阳，她们可能会统治你。她们会慢慢地做，很优雅地做，你可能很长时间都不会注意到。
2.供你参考，在日本的婚姻中，通常女性控制着所有的钱，所有的开销，她们给丈夫零用钱。
3.通常，一个日本女人会选择一个外国丈夫作为离开日本的方式。外国男人通常会选择日本妻子作为留在日本的一种方式。
4.如果你结婚了，并生活在日本以外，当你的第一个孩子出生时，有一天你的妻子会抱着你的孩子，并意识到除非你的家人生活在日本，否则你的孩子将永远不能用日语和他们的日本祖父母说话。这通常会促使一个家庭搬回日本。
JE Cook Follow
In a general sense, YMMV, Japanese girlfriends are wonderful for men who like attention, sexual fulfillment, planner, and fun. They are bad for men who are looking for a relationship equal, intellectually challenging partner, or a potential wife that remains the same as the ‘wonderful’ list. Pros of a Japanese wife are: household management, child care (if you have children with them), and they will let you have all the hobbies you want. Cons: They will want to return to Japan once they have children, you will become an income source for the household even more so with children in the house, you may feel betrayed by the significant behavioral change from girlfriend to wife, her family matters only and yours is tolerated / avoided, if you have children she views them as her exclusive property, not your children together and will likely slowly alienate them from you over time. Child abduction in Japan, or to Japan, is not an enforced crime. If / when she takes the children to Japan, they are gone forever and you will be erased from their lives.

一般来说，你的期望可能和现实不符，日本女友对于喜欢受到关注、性满足、有规划和乐趣的男人来说非常棒。对于那些想要找一个平等的、智力上对等的伴侣，或者想要一个与“完美”女友相同的潜在妻子的男人来说，她们是不好的。日本妻子的优点是: 料理家务，照顾孩子(如果你和她们有孩子的话)，她们会让你拥有所有你想要的爱好。缺点: 一旦她们有了孩子，她们就会想要回到日本，你会成为家庭的收入来源，有了孩子以后更是如此，你可能会因为从女朋友到妻子的行为变化而感到背叛，她的家庭更重要，你的家庭是可以被容忍/忽视的，如果你有孩子，她会把他们视为她的专属财产，而不是你的孩子，随着时间的推移，可能会慢慢疏远他们。在日本，或者到日本诱拐儿童，不算实施犯罪。如果她带孩子们去日本，他们就永远消失了，你也会从他们的生活中被抹去。
The cultural training of woman in Japan has them fall in 3–4 roles that are mutually exclusive to the others. Girlfriend: carefree, intellectually inferior (not dumb, just subordinate) sexually active, beauty focused. Wife: serious, controlling, sexually restrained, trying to become ’mother’. Mother: matriarch and practical head of household, child enmeshed, sexually frigid, distant from husband. Old woman: child focused, vacation minded, trying to become grandma, waiting for grandpa to pass away to start ‘living’.
These are simple generalizations and miss the nuances that are part of any relationship. it is important to note that Japanese women tend to view marriage as a partnership or joint venture, not ‘love’ as many in the west do. ‘Love’ dies after children. You may love her immensely, but she won’t ‘love’ you back in any way you recognize from before.

在日本，对女性的文化培训让她们扮演着3-4个相互排斥的角色。女友: 无忧无虑，智力低下(不是愚蠢，只是很顺从)，性活跃，注重美貌。妻子: 认真、有控制欲、性克制，试图成为“母亲”。母亲: 女家长和实际的一家之主，孩子纠缠不清，性冷淡，与丈夫疏远。老妇人: 专注孩子，享受退休生活，努力成为奶奶，等待爷爷去世开始“新生活”。
这些都是简单的概括，忽略了任何关系中都存在的细微差别。值得注意的是，日本女性倾向于将婚姻视为伙伴关系或合资企业，而不是像许多西方女性那样认为的“爱情”。有了孩子，“爱”就消失了。你可能会非常爱她，但她不会以你以前认识到的任何方式来“爱”你。
Brian Burnside Follow
It is no picnic. I've been married to my wife for almost 25 years. I love her to death.
It doesn't matter if your wife is Japanese or American or European or whatever. They are first and foremost woman. They have wants and needs. Second, you married them because you loved them.
Japanese women can and do cheat like women from any other country. Actively love them and they will treat you well.
Don't seek a japanese wife unless you know the language and the culture. I had lived in Japan for a number of years and spoke Japanese. That said, I never dated a japanese woman in Japan. I met my wife in college through a blind date.
We eventually got married and had 4 wonderful kids together.
The challenges are that she will want to return to Japan from time to time. This costs a lot of money. Be prepared financially for this so it doesn’t affect your relationship.

这不是一件轻松的事。我和我妻子结婚快25年了。我爱死她了。
不管你的妻子是日本人、美国人、欧洲人还是其他什么人。她们首先是女性，她们有欲望和需求。第二，你和她们结婚是因为你爱她们。
日本女人可以像其他国家的女人一样出轨。积极地爱她们，她们就会对你好。
除非你懂日语和日本文化，否则不要找日本妻子。我在日本住了几年，会说日语。也就是说，我在日本从没和日本女人约会过。我是在大学里通过相亲认识我妻子的。
我们最终结婚了，有了4个很棒的孩子。
问题是，她会时不时地想回到日本。这要花很多钱。在经济上做好准备，这样就不会影响你们的关系。
They generally have a different view on religion. If she cooks, she is going to do a lot of Japanese dishes. Great if you like Japanese cuisine, not so great if you don’t.
Then kids will have dual citizenship and you will need to get both Japanese and American passports.. not cheap.
If you don’t speak Japanese, you won’t be able to eavesdrop on her conversations. couples that speak each others language always eavesdrop. I speak Japanese, so it is no issue. Her friends will be Japanese as well. And they will speak in Japanese. If you don’t speak Japanese, then you won’t be part of the conversation. And you complaining about it is just selfish on your part. She put the effort in to learn English, you should have no complaints if you are too lazy to learn Japanese.
Then there are the creature comforts she will want from Japan. Clothing, Kotatsu, Food, Futon, Manga, etc. Not cheap in the U.S..
I don’t mind the expense at all. I love my wife and like to treat her to nice things.

她们通常对宗教有不同的看法。如果她做饭，她会做很多日本菜。如果你喜欢日本料理，那很好，如果你不喜欢，那就不太好了。
然后孩子就会有双重国籍，你需要同时持有日本和美国护照。这并不便宜。
如果你不会说日语，你就不可能偷听她的谈话。说对方语言的夫妻总是会偷听。我说日语，所以没有问题。她的朋友也会是日本人。他们会说日语。如果你不会说日语，那么你就不会参与对话。而你对此的抱怨只能展示你自私的一面。她是努力学英语的，你要是懒得学日语就没有什么可抱怨的。
此外，她还希望从日本获得物质上的舒适。服装、小酌、食品、蒲团、漫画等。在美国这些并不便宜。
我一点也不在乎费用。我爱我的妻子，我也喜欢给她好东西。
I live for her hugs and kisses. I am 6′ and she is like 4′9″. A serious height difference, but she is awesome. That means she puts a lot of things down low and I can’t find them a lot of the time…
And then there are the visa issues. Getting the green card and what not.
Most American-Japanese marriages end in divorce. I don’t recommend dating outside your culture unless you are willing to put in the effort to learn it.

我为她的拥抱和亲吻而活。我6英尺，她4英尺9英寸。我们的身高差距很大，但她很厉害。这意味着她把很多事情低调处理，而我很多时候都找不到解决方法。
此外还有签证问题，以及拿到绿卡之类的问题。
大多数美日婚姻以离婚告终。我不建议你和自己文化圈之外的人约会，除非你愿意付出努力去学习。